11111st poster gets a cookie (cookie thread (Part 7)) (Part 10)

Happy birthday Litten! :heart:

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Someone at work has been flirting with me and I’ve not been very responsive to it. It’s gotten to the point where she was late for work today and a manager asked me if I had her number and I told them no and they asked me how do I not have their number. My interest in dating them is below zero. This doesn’t seem very productive to the concept of actually dating someone.

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You can be interested in the concept of wanting to date someone and still not be romantically interested in a particular person

These two things are not mutually exclusive idk

Sometimes we just aren’t interested in people, and that is okay

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no no he’s ace

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i spent 30k posts in a secret cookie thread with him

he’s ace

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You can be ace and not aro tho right

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I like the concept of dating someone I just probably need to find someone I would like to date but with the way my mind works uh

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I think I would need to know a person heavily before I ever considered dating someone

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Which again. Doesn’t seem productive to the concept of dating which is getting to know a person

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Yeah this is how it was w/ me

I would be good friends w someone for a while before developing feelings

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Benguined thinks I’m ace because I don’t understand why sex is that important in a relationship. I mean I could be ace but I don’t think that would be the reason

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Nah the modern day def of dating is certainly a definition but it doesn’t need to be followed to the T l think

I have never gone out on a date w/ someone that I hadn’t already confessed feelings to so. I definitely don’t fit in with the traditional idea of dating so there is definitely a lot of people oit there who have similarish mindsets/views

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happy birthday, litten.

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Yeah I mean I am not ace and idt sex is like. That important to a relationship :skull:

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how old is the feline now

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22!

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Taylor swift starts playing

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I’m very old for a kitten

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Omg your name

It is kitten almost but it is litten

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they don’t make em like they used to
none of em are as cute anymore

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