Okaay I’m getting much more encouragement to become really serious about life before it gets serious
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You can fix this TODAY.
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there is also significantly less time spent agonizing over my extended family helping me
… the actual “:agony” part is if they would still help me if they actually, like, Knew anything that has happened to me wrt: my dad?
my grandpa does but he has always been significantly more of a dad than my actual dad and he is also not the one actively talking to me becuase he is Old As Fuck
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get friends who r rich
the entire reason im into rock climbing is bc i have a friend whos into it who works tech and he needs something to spend money on
so hes covered my $80 a month gym membership, shoes (like $200), harness (like $100), and other misc stuff
And hes just like “you can pay me back if you want, or not, idrc”
thats the kinda money i wanna have
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my god
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obligatory “your net worth is your network” post
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i dont even talk to people i like
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do you
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i feel like this statement is like. objectively untrue but
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unless you’ve secretly been vi’s nemesis 2 this entire time but
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u should do that ur quality of life will increase dramatically
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It explains why we don’t talk often
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EXACTLY, I LOVE FRIENDS
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Nothing beats a strenuous mood than cool and silly divas
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someone from my uni like orbited me on our break and like shes a nice girl but i just dont want to talk to peopleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
i had college friends i loved and had lots of fun with and i intentionally avoided running into them when possible
i will talk to my e-people. that is it
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Advice ive been given that i have found helpful
Force people to be your friend
They will be your friend and they will like it (unless theyre boring or w/e in which case just stop talking to them)
Find someone who gives off good vibes and. Talk to them.
It is scary and hard but u do it enough times and ur super used to it and then boom, u have friends
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oh fair
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i would not phrase it like this but “actively Doing Things about people u want to be friends with” is def good advice
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society when i do not do this
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See this can work, like i have a lot of close friends online (and one of those friends have become far more of an irl friend which is awesome)
but like. Also having irl friends is cool (for me at least, bc i like doing things in person and dont enjoy many online activities as much as in person ones)
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