20000th poster gets a cookie (cookie thread (Part 7)) (Part 9)

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#14591

water

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#14592

NOTHING

#14593

So, what did you do?

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#14594

NOTJING

#14595

Sunscreen reminder everyone!!

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#14596

(Unrelated) do u guys know how to healthily cope with the situation of people disliking you?

#14597

Complain about it on FoL.
More seriously, just ignore them. They give you less time of day than you imagine, so deny them your time of day.

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#14598

Ignore them

Cats are also a great source of ways to get rid of any sad feelings

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#14599

Guy who has only heard one Australian voice before, listening to a second: ā€œGetting a lot of Gummigoo vibes from this.ā€

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#14600

In psychology the fear of peopleā€™s opinions automatically come from ego, ego is your perception of self, each feeling you have, think hard of it and potentially tie it as part of an identity you think of yourself.

This tends to be pathological sometimes that you become afraid of othersā€™ validation. Each time you get a thought about it, probe yourself as to why you have it. And also remember thoughts are not you, theyā€™re just thoughts.

Ego and fear of ostricization evolved because people who got outcasted died, hence the fear of being percieved negatively.

But if something concerns you, reflect on it and anticipate a strategy next. But if you canā€™t change anything about the situation and neither you can do anything, then ignore the thoughts by focusing on what youā€™re doing, snap your focus back each time it drifts to that negativity.

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#14601

Had it been earlier in my life, I would probably associate it instead with that ranger from The Rescuers Down Under.

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#14602

Identify why they dislike you

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#14603

Iā€™d spite them out personally to try to get them to leave

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#14604

oh cope with it hmmm

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#14605

Not everyone in the internetā€™s gonna like you, everyone has their own reasons and biases and what matters is giving your attention to those that do!

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#14606

I donā€™t believe you

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#14607

Depends on the person who dislike me. If itā€™s a stranger who I donā€™t care about, I would just ignore them.

If someone I care, I would try to figure out why they donā€™t like me. (The simplest is just ask them, or if you arenā€™t brave enough, i would ask a mutual acquaintance.)

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#14608

How are drinks making me hungry

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#14609

happens, i would just ignore those people. Not everyone is gonna like u, and u shouldnt like everyone in turn

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#14610

dm me it right now

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