I don’t think he’s unsupportive of them directly but like… ugh
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you know fol is a bubble bc in any other group if you said “there is this person who wears a cat collar every day” the response would be “that seems like a red flag you should not date this person” instead of “omg u have to date them like for the meme”
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Back in the fall, when I’d first met their now-partner and Jaiden and I were still dating, he made a weird undolicited comment about “my girlfriend’s vagina”. I was like “what, also not even true, my girlfriend is transgender” and he was like Wow May I Thought You Liked Vagina . Because I’m a lesbian
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Literally it was some of the most like. Stepping on several conseuctive rakes of social blunders I’ve ever seen
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really goes to show you that not even trans people are immune to transmisogyny
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- Don’t make unprompted sexual comments about people
- Don’t make assumptions about people’s genitals
- When you DO embarrass yourself by making an incorrect and deeply inappropriate assumption, do not FURTHER DIG IN by revealing you ALSO made an assumption about somebody’s sexual orientation
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I feel like one leads into the other into the other.
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point 3 wasn’t assuming something about your sexual orientation as much as it was just having a transmisogynistic definition of lesbian
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sometimes i forget im just a weirdo surronded by other weirdos
bc like ill have those moments where its like
oh yeah, most people arent trans, or furries, or wear dog collars, or bark for fun 
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It’s just like. Fucking insane. Wow May when you said you were a lesbian I thought that was obviously by default exclusive of trans people!
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No that’s what I meant. Making an assumption about how I would define lesbian
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Oh sure okay fair enough
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Like the being fucking transmisogynistic thing was already established by points 1 and 2. The third insane thing is that he also just assumed I would naturally be transmisogynistic also, OBVIOUSLY
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My girlfriend has started syaing “wait May I thought you liked vagina thouguh???” to me regularly which is some kind of hell
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“Wait, May, you like girls???”
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i think im going to just call it a day for today and make a schedule or something for the future today
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this is what i always do btw
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it’s how i procrastinate further :’(
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im a creeeeeeeeeeeeep
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whats up guys im tom york
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