About the Rules & Moderation category (Part 1)

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#21009

you live in a comedy

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#21010

I do genuinely now have to decide the path that will lead to the minimal harm here. Like

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#21011

it’s ok they’ll find someone new if you say no. or if you say yes

#21012

Both of htem were assholes and I don’t want to be around them. They need to grow the fuck up before they hurt more people. Fast. But obviously trying to socially isolate them does more harm than good. But allowing them no consequences also does more harm than good

#21013

And I mean like primarily the concern is that they’ll harm other people who aren’t me, and me saying “no fuck you” to them doesn’t do much, if anything, to mitigate that harm. And I don’t know where my chocolate raspberry bar went it was with my butter which went between two fridges that weren’t mine and IDK where I left it. So the desire to say “no fuck you” is probably primarily selfish. But I also don’t want to make myself miserable, me being miserable is also a net negative on the world

#21014

the chocolate raspberry bar is of course the most important part of this dilemma

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#21015

It is

#21016

It was a lot easier when they were both still being complete assholes and I could declare them both beyond saving. Now that they’re unfortunately not beyond saving I have to try to save them

#21017

they didn’t even last a week

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#21018

how

#21019

I learned in this Discord DM that they did in fact get together the DAY we broke up. LATER THAT DAY

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#21020

So like you can see why I want space because right now I kind of hope they both die because holy fucking hell

#21021

The third party acted like they had complete agency over all of this. I still haven’t spoken to collar person about it. I need to. But I also need to be less angry and I keep thinking I’m almost nonangry enough and it keeps being incorrect

#21022

out of curiosity has anything normal ever happened at your university

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#21023

My math friends are pretty normal. They’re all graduating a year early and htey’re obsessed with the dining hall and they do measure theory for fun but broadly

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#21024

why would you be obsessed with the dining hall

#21025

They just love it there. They spend hours there a day

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#21026

I mentioned an in-joke about one of them being the patron saint of that dining hall to a mutual friend and he was like “oh yeah 100% he’s literally always there”

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#21027

don’t forget that you are infinitely more capable of rational thought than these people, and you must use that advantage

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#21028

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