About the Rules & Moderation category (Part 1)

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#23570

He’s gonna see me being colder as everybody rejecting him now that apartment guy doesn’t like him. It’s gonna be a pain in the ass

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#23571

Surely there are other things a person can do that doesn’t involve harming yourself, like reading a book, or holding hands

#23572

I imagine collar person as tbis emo person who’s short with cat ears

#23573

They’re 6’1

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#23574

May give me a topic to focus on

#23575

damn they’re playing for the wrong heat

#23576

I think the thing that is making me feel like shit over this for so long is specific. Or there’s a couple very specific things.

  1. They broke up with me pretty soon after I was staying with them because being in mouse room was making me profoundly mentally unwell, and they clearly stopped likingg me as much during the course of that stay. It feels really frustrating and sucks to finally convince myself to ask somebody else for help because I was suffering and have that directly lead to them abandoning me
  2. If you break up with somebody then it could be for a lot of reasons. It could be because you don’t want any relationship at the time, it’s not necessarily that. If you break up with somebody and start dating someone else the same day then it was definitely that specific person.
  3. Because I’m not dating them anymore I have zero control over them anymore, I can’t try to get them to stop doing self-destructive things or being shitty to others, and they’re a bit of a loose cannon who tends to do that so it’s scary to have them outside of my range of control
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#23577

Hmmm idk

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#23578

I can’t focus on anything except my relationship drama because that’s what I think about every morning when I wake up and every night when I go to sleep without fail

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#23579

I know this won’t help but I think it’s better that it happened earlier than later, so you staying in their room probably was for the best. It would suck to be really invested and then them decided no lol later

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#23580

i think the thing that’s making you feel like shit over this for so long is that everyone involved in this besides you is insane

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#23581
  1. I wasn’t doing great before the breakup in the first place and now all the remaining feeling like shit is not only intesified by it but all gets attributed to it when a lot of it was general suffering
#23582

I also thought about this but like the thing that’s the problem is the timing was bad for me, I was feeling pretty bad already, and I’d frankly rather a slow fade-off where we can both realise it’s not working than a unilateral sudden ending. And having a clear misplay that’s my fault for it ending like it did makes me feel really bad

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#23583

Ice thought of a couple solutions to this

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#23584
  1. Murder
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#23585

Let me know your thoughts on this method

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#23586

Everybody else being insane should make me not give a shit because they’re insane and I can dismiss them.

#23587

yeah but you still have to interact with them because they’re in the “group”

#23588

Sometimes I imagine how I’d go about it if I wanted to but I don’t. When people die everybody praises them

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#23589

Not anymore lol nobody wants to talk to them after this latest stunt