Sure is
Meow
And it doesnât feel like they ever have the same, like, sense of⌠not so much âcaringâ but just, like, any kind of feeling of connection with me if I canât spend inordinate amounts of time sitting around doing nothing with them
Are they your friends
And I already fucking spend inordinate amounts of time, much more than I should, like, on and off in text chats! But because Iâm not there 6PM to 3AM in a voice chat while somebody plays a game
I mean objectively yes
How much do they pay you
Like the problem is that theyâre Not My Friends in that they donât respect me or donât want to be friends with me the problem is that, like
They donât respect my Time
Or rather are used to me having time that is not Respectable
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May wanna play ten botc games all at once
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And so they donât fucking understand that when I show up I would really like to talk about the thing I showed up to talk about or other specific thing and do not want to/cannot spend five hours just sitting there waiting for them to finish a level in a pauseable video game
Yes
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And everybody has so many fucking time demands. Everybody is constantly making themselves into an obligation. Do you really want me to feel obligated to spend time with you
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Do you really thi
I donât even wanna play one
The purrox game Iâm still upset over
It kind of ruined any fun I had from winning
hmm i could probably find the worst homebrew script ever to play on
I donât spend time talking to people I donât want to talk to on account of talking is kind of inherently exhausting if I feel like the other person has a constant minimum level of expectation for my engagement with the conversation. And so many people just, like, donât let you spend Just A Little Time With Them. Either they want to be Friends necessitating a minimum amount of Time Engagement Spent Talking About Nothing or they donât want to fucking talk to you at all