About the Rules & Moderation category (Part 1)

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#6186

I think it’s worth trying but do be careful about not sunk cost fallacying yourself into a relationship you don’t really eant to be in that’s kind of easy

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#6187

Wait

#6188

I’m literally litten as in I would avoid things if it makes someone actively upset

#6189

This is terrible

#6190

I can so easily get myself into a situation like that

#6191

yeah.

#6192

Dating sucks what the fuck

#6193

Yeah that’s the problem issue

#6194

I’ve literally seen so many people upset about dating or girlfriends or boyfriends too

#6195

if you want to go on a date with somebody make clear what you want

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#6196

And there’s enough societal Rules and Expectations around dating someone where, like, if you are in a relationship and you put insufficient investment into it you aren’t just being rude by the other person’s standards but are Failing To Live Up To Collective Expectations

#6197

All it would take is “I feel like stopping now would make them feel really bad maybe it will work out (it won’t)” and it will be like Kroger all over agai

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#6198

Insufficient investment wouldn’t be an issue on my part

#6199

do you think setting clear expectations and if they violate it it allows your spite module to kick in

#6200

it depends

#6201

Insufficient investment or any other of a litany of things. There’s a lot of rules and they’re easy to break

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#6202

not very helpful

#6203

my spite module triggered for Kroger because I disliked my manager to begin with but I was stubborn
I have a feeling whoever I date isn’t going to be a 60 year old man

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#6204

Dating people you dislike is generally considered inadvisable

#6205

the nonexistent 60 year old man for adhd catboys who dont want their money to spend time with him community is in shambles.

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