About the Rules & Moderation category (Part 1)

Unrelatedly at that dinner party me and some guy quoted why do they call it oven in unison qhen I was putting garlic bread in the oven

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you mightve just met the real jon arbuckle

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i also have why do they call it oven memorized

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He looks kinda like him…

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Look I need to figure my own shit out

they might be single again one day

IDEK what happened re: previous date. I’m more talking about the whole ā€œwould I even actually want a relationship if somebody were availableā€

I’m unsure if I actually like it…

weren’t you doing it for like a year and a half

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Yeah and I didn’t really like it that much.

Hence why I stopped

It’s not about the Person it’s about. All the rules and obligations. Makes me tend to be resentful on principle

yeah true. part of the reason i haven’t sought out a relationship is because it involves obligations. and i’m feeling lazy

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i’m already procrastinating my grad school apps enough i don’t need interpersonal pressures on top of that

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Like per social convention you’re the Bad Guy so bad if you invest an insufficient amount of time and energy into interacting with this other person that’s weird and scary. Even if I want to do it I don’t want to feel like I have to. Scary and weird

Almost being in a relationship is much nicer

Probably much easier being physically near somebody though. Harder to maintain. Even the sorta relationship I had IRL was functionally long distance cause COVID + my health

what about the person who broke up with you

Who are you referring to

the one who broke up with you. am i making someone up