Unrelatedly at that dinner party me and some guy quoted why do they call it oven in unison qhen I was putting garlic bread in the oven
you mightve just met the real jon arbuckle
i also have why do they call it oven memorized
He looks kinda like himā¦
Look I need to figure my own shit out
they might be single again one day
IDEK what happened re: previous date. Iām more talking about the whole āwould I even actually want a relationship if somebody were availableā
Iām unsure if I actually like itā¦
werenāt you doing it for like a year and a half
Yeah and I didnāt really like it that much.
Hence why I stopped
Itās not about the Person itās about. All the rules and obligations. Makes me tend to be resentful on principle
yeah true. part of the reason i havenāt sought out a relationship is because it involves obligations. and iām feeling lazy
iām already procrastinating my grad school apps enough i donāt need interpersonal pressures on top of that
Like per social convention youāre the Bad Guy so bad if you invest an insufficient amount of time and energy into interacting with this other person thatās weird and scary. Even if I want to do it I donāt want to feel like I have to. Scary and weird
Almost being in a relationship is much nicer
Probably much easier being physically near somebody though. Harder to maintain. Even the sorta relationship I had IRL was functionally long distance cause COVID + my health
what about the person who broke up with you
Who are you referring to
the one who broke up with you. am i making someone up