Came to their senses and noticed my lack of genuine respect for them
didnāt you get into this relationship by making jokes along those lines
When I was drinking with a mutual friend right before break they mentioned we were dating and I said ādating is a strong wordā and got asked ādo you not want to date them??ā and gave an inconclusive answer and maybe that friend told
Supposed to be in a fun way not a real way
havenāt they known forever youāve been finicky about it and yet still want to interact with you
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itās pretty obvious to any semi-observent person you think highly of yourself
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Yeah but maybe itās because they were irrational due to proximity. Maybe their New Yearās resolution is to not talk to me
think objectively, please
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My objective is to be insane
thatās obviously outright irrational
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and i think you realise that too
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Look this is a new manifestation of being alone too long
Itās a disease and I understand this
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mhm
thatās relationship stuff, iām afraid
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love is nice and fun but itās also evil yes
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Love is a strong word
may iām going to live forever you should probably think hard about what you really want
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i canāt say iām an advisor on any of this stuff but a lot of this is just your brain messing with you because the brain loves to do that
and you obviously know that, its just reminders thatāll count
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Good news, itās a news year resolution.
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Itās not particularly concerning to me itās just that when I want something and almost has it my brain automatically adjusts expectations by processing all potential scenarios where we donāt get it to avoid devastation on the off chance one such scenario does come true