thats awesome as hell
REAL vivian hours
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āabusive peopleā is where we probably disagree
I donāt draw lines like that, since Iāve felt severely abused by people who probably arenāt considered āabusive peopleā
Itās just an action that anyone can take, peopleās actions are results of situations, not based on some arbitrary label
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things can be both more complex and still be an entirely valid reason to never want to be around someone again
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i
still have bad news
he literally drained the vibe in every situation where the point where we had to ask him to leave the server and then he threatened to kill himself because our friend rejected him and then me and our other friend got matched against him in a game a lot (small community) and he would constantly target us even when it didnāt benefit him. like he would die just to kill our friend Ally
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Valid? What makes a decision valid?
You can subjectively call something a valid reason, in your view of the situation, but what if I disagree?
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this probably means they Are, In Fact, Abusive
Yeah nevermind
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like I donāt know the whole situation but
I have bad news
well if youre the one heading out like. fair dues. youre doing that. only you
if you want them gone you have to have the community agree. and if theyre not on the same page then you probably dont want to be around them very much either
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Iāve abused plenty of people, so Iām an abuser in your view
but what if I decide to stop abusing people, am I now not an abusive person?
I think people should labels on things that arenāt so thin.
what
my. my sibling in christ
i have heard you speak one word (i think) and it was just ārealā so i fully believe this
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I think labels are bad.
okay first of all just because a person āstops being abusiveā doesnāt mean you still donāt have trauama from it
second of all I agree but not in this way