i have heard you speak one word (i think) and it was just “real” so i fully believe this
I think labels are bad.
okay first of all just because a person “stops being abusive” doesn’t mean you still don’t have trauama from it
second of all I agree but not in this way
I have gotten someone banned from a community before because it was me or them before. If the community didnt want to I wouldve straight up just been gone. Which wouldve sucked. But that is how that works
I phrased this horribly
i feel like i joined at a bad time
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so tom and jerry right
but its like a “I’ll totally improve myself and you can definitely trust me” type thing
homosexuals
yeah there are a lot of those around here
anyway, what were you saying about tom and jerry
if you stop abusing someone then no you’re not an abuser anymore I guess (that’s kinda subjective but that’s my opinion)
but if someone is currently abusing you you shouldn’t stick around which is what it seemed like you were arguing against but correct me if I’m wrong
It seems like you are applying your own bias to the hypothetical.
Where did I say you are trusting someone? All I said was that someone not currently doing something is what matters.
katze we are currently discussing the horrors either accept tom and jerry as homosexual or join the campfire
sorry this makes me unreasonably angry but
“my own bias” is something that is commonly agreed upon if not always executed (leaving abusive people and never coming back)
i did not feel good about doing that. the situation sucked. they deserved it. the community was safer for it. These are the things I tell myself
I’m confused as to why you are upset. All I said was that is someone still labeled abusive if they’ve stopped abusing people, and I feel like it’s not about that now?
thats boring
and also im not sure if im gonna be designing fam4 cuz im lazy and tired
sorry but
originally you said something that could be equated to “stay around abusive people, they’re just human”
am i wrong