honestly i think there is genuine value in wanting your children to carry on your historical traditions and wanting them to have a spouse who comes from that same background seems inherently valid in a way that doesnât seem inherently racist to me
I mean I donât even think thatâs really all that related because I suspect this would almost certainly still be true were gummy dating like the one singular white guy at a school in India
or the one pakistani guy at a school in india
or the one black guy at a school in india
or the one asian guy at a school in india
so like, sure, but also no?
itâs certainly possible to escalate that to racism and I would obviously not agree with ostracizing a person over it
but like I think having a desire like that in the first place is pretty distinct from racism as a baseline
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No, I agree with this, but at some point, it becomes too generalizing/racist, I think, and we are er definitely past that
For context, when I told my dad I liked a white guy, his face er fell and then he hopefully asked if I was dating a Jewish person
(I am not)
So like, why did he mention Jewish specifically
Stereotype of them beingâŠsmarter or something lol
I donât think so?
The racism is the part where my mom would kill me if I dated a Pakistani or Muslim girl.
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this is why i asked the person in question because i didnât know about the specific experience
the answer i received was yes.
From what I can see, gummyâs parents lean into ethnical stereotypes, Iâd say thatâs racist
I think I should have clarified more ig
Wanting to like have your child marry someone of the same cultural background to keep traditions alive isnât inherently racist, but the way a lot of parents try to go about this is