In FAM3 i asked arete to verify all of my action submissions before deadline because i was paranoid they would get missed. I dont think arete is an incompetent host i agree i have too much anxiety/paranoia. Every time i leave my apartament i pull the door 5 times to make sure ive locked it. Sometimes i walk for 2 minutes and return back to check because i got scared i didnt lock it, and ive always locked it
Hopefully if i do it again you wouldnt take it personally and youd just brush it off, each person has their quirks like that :P. For instance you May feel very uncomfortable about responding to DMs and you leave people on read. This is generally considered rude by most people, its usually a sign of “stop talking to me”, but you arent doing it to be rude. Could this be a similar situation? (in terms of, a quirk that is perceived as rude without the intention to be rude)