oml you fuckin dork
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lololol
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nicely
emotional Scurvy: Seasonal Affective Disorder
social Cancer: the Spanish
intellectual AIDS: political correctness
psychological Ebola: yaoi boy disease
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truth nuke
I never understood why (straight) people are hated on yaoi especially, when they are absolutely fine with yuri⌠so those people arenât homophpbes.
if girl on girl action is fine, why you hate guy on guy action?
and this comes from the ace person⌠(Although, when I first went into this debate, I wasnât really clear on my sexuality, so probably that played into my not understanding this.)
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also itâs not a man or woman thingâŚ
when it came up, almost everyone (both guys and girls at that time) agreed yuri is fine, while yaoi is just bad.
I was almost the only outliner.
easier to fetishize two women than two men
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but why?
I tried to read both yaoi and yuriâŚ
Beside the point I didnât like either particulary, there are/were very good authors on both fronts.
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Wisdom d5 mislim was the bigger warcrime tbh.
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i dont like either as like a social concept
its very âopposite gender fetishizing the others same sex relationshipsâ which i guess is fine in private but i dont fw it as like a thing to take pride in even if youâre not the opposite gender
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Also recently I realized I never read or heard of an ace romance story before this.
And even in the current story Iâm reading it wasnât the ace romance the original selling point either. Just 500 chapters in they drop the bomb, by the way the protag is an ace (it was more or less told into the protagâs face, that she is very likely asexual, so she just learned it that point as well), and a few chapter later she accepts and reciprocate her best friendâs crush on her. There were clues from chapter 1 on the sexuality part, but I thought the protag was just dense and not an ace (well, later it becomes obvious, that she is still mostly dense, so the two trait doesnât clearly exclude each other).
And now the story turned into a half fantasy / half ace romance mix.
So⌠I still never read a pure ace romance story, I guess.
Seriously, how does Wisdom get mislunched? Am I just able to decode Wisdomâs alignment, when no one else can?
I think youre conflating homophobia (which im pretty sure is common in Hungary) with ppls general sentment (online, where theyre usually less homophobic). Men irl are homophobic towards gay men and generally less towards lesbian women due to fetishization. Women tend to be less homophobic
Also the words yaoi and yuri can mean different things depending on context. In western context it can be used synonymously for gay men and gay women. It doesnât even need to be japanese media which is the origin of the word. In Japanese context, yuri is lesbian romance, yaoi is specifically hypersexual gay men media, they use the phrase BL (Boyâs Love) instead to sway away from those connotatiosn and mean just gay romance
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hi guy here
idea of dating a guy is mega unappealing so a story about two guys dating is mega unappealing
idea of dating a girl is not mega unappealing so a story about two girls dating is not mega unappealing
it really is that simple for a lot of us
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what orange âguy hereâ andblack5 is afraid to say is the truth
>idea of selfinserting as a man not appealing
>idea of selfinserting as a woman appealing
this is why he hates yaoi GOODNIGHT
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because straight men prefer gachi
yaoi artstyle is ugly and yuri artstyle is also ugly but atleast they have tits
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I hate those people.
Just because some people on top are âveryâ focal about being homophobes, people tend to believe the country is⌠(and just because I canât relate myself to gays sexually, I am still not homophobe. I had quite a few homo friends, and it was never a problem.)
Also, I think I was pretty clear Iâm unclear about the general sentiment (on yuri is good, yaoi is bad), not on homophobia in general. (homophobes I at least somewhat understand, even if I donât agree with them.)
I mean the extreme definition on both. (It doesnât have to be just japanese media.)
Iâm very fine with BL, GL (girlâs love), Also with harem and reverse harem stories. The occasional sex scene I can accept. But if the story is just about over the top R-18 (even if itâs heteroâŚ) stuff, without any rhyme or reason, thatâs just too much for me.
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Legends say that saying good night to Silviu more often increases the chances of a cookie and snatches it away from that cookie witch named Molly
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Yeah, this one at least I understand. But you are very wrong. This isnât really this simple, even for most guys I was talking with. You would be surprised how few people would come up with this argument (even among guys), if asked.
Yeah, this one is a way more common reaction, even when I was talking about only written stuff, without pictures.
(or the most common argument, that the act involving two dingdong is just impossible to imagine.)
I just donât understand, why both parties having tits is a (commonly accepted) turn on, but both parties having something between the legs has to be such a turn offâŚ