fucking amen
happy birthday gummy!!!
i’ve been thinking more about the social effects of family and gender on the daily life of people
isn’t it weird how groups of people have certain, predisposed beliefs of which gender they prefer being around in a casual manner?
and like they change depending on the people/group and its not wholly dependant on sexual orientation
it seems so casual to say but that’s weird!
like here is predisposed to women. if i was male people would interact with me far less, it’s just that my personality is seen as endearing and interesting largely in part due to my specific gender
i think i figured out what gender studies does
cause it’s like
i figured out why my father lounges around so often. it’s cause he can. cause he’s expected to, and he’s thusly rewarded for it with care.
look it sounds basic when i say it out loud but i was never taught much if anything I’ve learnt almost everything on my own
I was following until you said endearing and interesting
Interesting? Yes
Endearing???
you are such an asshole!!
silviu finds me endearing!
But is that perception of me driven by my gender? If you thought of me as female would that change the narrative?
Proof or it didnt happen
no because i was fundamentally raised outside of society
We live in a society
You cannot be outside of society by nature of this very interaction
i rephrased my statement
Also happy birthday
Snooze you lose