i’m not doing core b side today i know i lied last time when i said i wasn’t doing summit b side today either but i genuinely refuse to go through core again i don’t have the patience for that rn
some people have the privelege to not feel afraid but frankly speaking a woman was killed seemingly at random on a morning run. not only is it incredibly, incredibly insensitive to ACTIVELY fucking celebrate her death for some extremely minor percieved benefit to you, it shows a complete lack of perspective considering this is something that probably makes many members in the local community super afraid and upset
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I only learned it happened because classes were cancelled, which is why I brought it up. I’m not celebrating someone’s death because classes are cancelled lol.
Yeah it does. I lack empathy I know this. idk why yall are trying to shame me over who I am
Gasp?!? Like May??? You think this way because of unempathy?!?
Nah it’s probably because I have had multiple people betray me in my life so it’s tough to feel any sort of attachment with other people
That
sounds serious.
I’m not shaming you over it.
You will never experience the betrayal I have. You will never experience worse thoughts than I have. I do not mean to put down the struggles or experiences you’ve lived through, but it is important to realize it is not something for you to use to justify your actions.
I only lost my compassion or care for someone a couple times and it’s a terrible thing. If you have ever found yourself feeling this way seriously, you should be seeking counseling and professional guidance. This isn’t a joke. I did bad things when I stopped caring and it was something I had to regret a long time.
I am going to shame you, because this isn’t “who you are” this is you justifying bad aspects of yourself. Change is possible, I’m someone who can prove that. Hold yourself to a high standard, seek help if needed, and don’t be like this.
Everyone already hates me, so I’m the perfect person to tell you the truth.
This can’t be true, because I don’t hate you.
You just don’t know me well enough.
I didn’t have plans to stick around and post in this thread, as I’m seeking mental health myself. Although this was something I wanted to comment on.
I wish you all well
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You are right. I never will. My trust issues come from a long history of differing severities of when people have betrayed my trust and it has made it incredibly hard for me to form connections with people including councelors.
I don’t need change because I don’t care about what others think of me
You don’t change because you like being a worse person. It’s as simple as that.
Do not let yourself run away from morality like a child.
I’ve said my piece, if you choose to be a worse person, then there is no one that can change your mind than yourself. Although you should acknowledge the truth, and stop hiding behind excuses. This is something you choose, not something forced upon you. I have respect for those who are aware of themselves, but those who blame their actions on others gets them nowhere.
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My main issue is why would I chose to be a better person when people are still going to be terrible people to me. I am perfectly capable of acting nice, and I try not to harm others, so why does it matter what my internal thoughts are?
“My main issue is why would I chose to be a better person when people are still going to be terrible people to me”
Read this. Then tell me do you think this is a rationale thought?
You previously said that OTHERS are the reason, you aren’t a better person. So you are the one who claims that you’d be a better person if OTHERS were better to you. This means you accept that someone’s lack of kindness can spread to others. Then after you acknowledge this fact, you choose to lack that kindness and compassion YOURSELF. This means you accept that you’ve become the exact person who made you feel these bad emotions.
How could you ever blame those people, when all you’ve done is become them and help them continue to spread even more of this despicable nonsense. By your words, I can tell that you’d prefer a world with more kindness and compassion, or your previous experiences wouldn’t have left a big impact on you. If deep down YOU desire for a more kind world, how could you choose to spread more of this despair?
It sounds so dumb, but it’s true that things start with YOU. Same shit with me, and if we both desire to experience more compassion in our world, we can’t allow ourselves to be like this.
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I can be nice to people and be “kind” but all of the emotions are superficial. I mostly find fun in making jokes that people laugh at, because I find humor to be my favorite emotion.
This is entirely from your lack of accepting the past.
Trust me, as someone who is holding onto countless past experiences, you aren’t happy/accepting and this makes you want to not partake in “real kindness” or compassion for others.
I’m talking from a lot of personal experience, and that’s why I recommended that you focus on seeking help. Even if it’s not in a professional sense, you could find a lot more in life if you didn’t feel the way you currently did.
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Thank you.
This post feels like it was written by Michael from The Office