20000th poster gets a cookie (cookie thread (Part 7)) (Part 9)

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Fun indeed! :smile:

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nobody would sue anybody for this anyways lmao

What about the rest of my post

I mean it sounded to me like he was being rowdy but not mugging or assaulting you?

if I misread that somehow then like yeah that would change things

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I literally said he hit me in the back of of my head. Fuck off

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that wording does not imply it was hard, and from the context I did not infer that it was particularly hard

if he punched you in the back of the head then yeah that’s clearly assault and things have changed a bit

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but still like anybody who is like that is very likely to have been in more fights than you and is prolly gonna win if you try to start shit back

especially if they aren’t alone

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still don’t think it’s the ideal solution to try

i dont think the point tuutu is making is that ā€œit would be a good thing if these people were beatenā€, rather that they felt powerless in the situation and literally got harassed and assaulted during it, along with seeing other people harrassed and assaulted. thats an incredibly frustrating situation to be in

there is no correct response bc its a super difficult situation to be in. honestly defending yourself isnt that bad a response imo but its also a lot easier said than done and could put you in more danger. the worst part about it is having to sit there and let it happen because you don’t have any other choice, and i imagine that is what tutuu was going through and having to deal with

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You said that there was no bodily injury to report which also convinced me it was more of a slap on the head

If there was no CCTV facilities I’d have also punched him. I agree. If there was, I’d have reported him to the police because 1. there’d be evidence and 2. I wouldn’t get in trouble

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sorry if this like, isn’t the case, this is just what i gathered from reading your posts. im not trying to put words into your mouth or anything like that

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ye n thats fair

but I think feeling worse about it because you didn’t fight back is unhelpful when trying would very likely have been worse for you

like yeah it’s a shitty situation but beating yourself up mentally after the fact for not replying with physical violence seems misguided to me

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24/25 on my apush exam yippie

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i think we’ve all learned to not ask fol for solutions to our problems

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Especially to ones that have different contexts based on regional differences.

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Im pretty sure a flight to Atlanta is longer than the drive to May’s uni from your location

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i think the best solution is to tell the bullies that ā€œsticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt meā€

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explicitly transgender first world problems? we’re probably a strong bet
implicitly transgender bulgarian problems Nope

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It’s good to complain about things you wouldn’t share with your close contacts.

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look all we’re asking is for may to go to the momocon hotel on memorial day weekend. what could go wrong?

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